Do You Still Love Her?

If you can’t forget how someone broke your heart, does it mean you still love that person?

She left you only to find out that she has a new one. Eventually she got married and now having 2 babies. Her husband died after some years. She was in your home country and you chose to work in another country so you can forget the pain she has caused you. You have moved on. That's what you said. Finally found the right girl you think you truly love and loves you in return. In fact you both are planning to get married at the soonest after two years of being committed.

Unexpectedly while you’re in a busy crowd somewhere you heard a familiar voice calling you. It was not her your ex but her mom. But you also met her that day since she was just around. You’ve seen her again after five long years. Her babies are with her as well. They were all on a tour in the country where you’re working.

Follow Your Heart But Think About The Future

It seems so easy doing the right thing and giving a bunch of good advice. I wonder if I am in that position. Just a thought...

Few weeks ago a friend consulted her problems with us regarding some matters of the heart. She was committed with someone for quite a long time, I guess for about 3 years. They loved each other so much although she was sometimes having hesitations if she will live a happy life with him.

I've known her only for less than a year. I wouldn't say that we have a lot of shared secrets together. But I would still say that I have known her quite well since we are all girls staying in one room. I can say that she is a friend. A good one with a genuine heart.

Some says that we can't have it all. If we are pretty, we might be dumb. If we are smart, we might lack physical beauty. She was a good lady and so simple.

Sober. Not Wasted.

I was crazy last Thursday for shouting at him.


He was just advising me what to do. Probably, de-cluttering my messed up mind. I was so tense and trying to think of the best option to take. He was trying to tell me to choose the second one which I certainly think won't help at all. Later I realized I shouted at him. I was so unfair. We hushed until I decided to take some time to be alone. I asked him to drop me few blocks away from home. I wanted my mind to be clear as soon as I step inside the house. I don't want anyone seeing traces of despair in my face.