Do You Still Love Her?

If you can’t forget how someone broke your heart, does it mean you still love that person?

She left you only to find out that she has a new one. Eventually she got married and now having 2 babies. Her husband died after some years. She was in your home country and you chose to work in another country so you can forget the pain she has caused you. You have moved on. That's what you said. Finally found the right girl you think you truly love and loves you in return. In fact you both are planning to get married at the soonest after two years of being committed.

Unexpectedly while you’re in a busy crowd somewhere you heard a familiar voice calling you. It was not her your ex but her mom. But you also met her that day since she was just around. You’ve seen her again after five long years. Her babies are with her as well. They were all on a tour in the country where you’re working.

Follow Your Heart But Think About The Future

It seems so easy doing the right thing and giving a bunch of good advice. I wonder if I am in that position. Just a thought...

Few weeks ago a friend consulted her problems with us regarding some matters of the heart. She was committed with someone for quite a long time, I guess for about 3 years. They loved each other so much although she was sometimes having hesitations if she will live a happy life with him.

I've known her only for less than a year. I wouldn't say that we have a lot of shared secrets together. But I would still say that I have known her quite well since we are all girls staying in one room. I can say that she is a friend. A good one with a genuine heart.

Some says that we can't have it all. If we are pretty, we might be dumb. If we are smart, we might lack physical beauty. She was a good lady and so simple.

Sober. Not Wasted.

I was crazy last Thursday for shouting at him.


He was just advising me what to do. Probably, de-cluttering my messed up mind. I was so tense and trying to think of the best option to take. He was trying to tell me to choose the second one which I certainly think won't help at all. Later I realized I shouted at him. I was so unfair. We hushed until I decided to take some time to be alone. I asked him to drop me few blocks away from home. I wanted my mind to be clear as soon as I step inside the house. I don't want anyone seeing traces of despair in my face.

S O U L M A T E

by Natasha Beddingfield

This is for all those who never quit searching for their soul mate, for those who never gives up the chance that somewhere somehow that one special person will walk in and give meaning to their life. Sad song but quite inspiring and true. Some of us are so successful in life but still feels incomplete because of that missing piece in our heart. I just hope that every lonely soul finds their perfect match. If you are still lost, wandering and searching for your soulmate -- just click the song title to listen to what your heart is singing...

Incompatible, it don't matter though
'Cos someone's bound to hear my cry
Speak out if you do you're not easy to find

Is it possible Mr. Loveable
Is already in my life?
Right in front of me or maybe you're in disguise

Who doesn't long for someone to hold

Who knows how to love you without being told
Somebody tell me why I'm on my own
If there's a soulmate for everyone

Here we are again, circles never end
How do I find the perfect fit
There's enough for everyone
But I'm still waiting in line

Who doesn't long for someone to hold
Who knows how to love you without being told
Somebody tell me why I'm on my own
If there's a soulmate for everyone
If there's a soulmate for everyone

Most relationships seem so transitory
They're all good but not the permanent one

Who doesn't long for someone to hold
who knows how to love you without being told
Somebody tell me why I'm on my own
If there's a soulmate for everyone

Who doesn't long for someone to hold
Who knows how to love you without being told
Somebody tell me why I'm on my own
If there's a soulmate for everyone
If there's a soulmate for everyone

falling in love with a black guy

So confused don’t know what to do. Should I take the chance? Is it worth to try? I am so scared, I fear to see the looks on people’s faces or hear their comments. Call me paranoid, but sorry.. well, I guess I really am. I can’t bear people’s criticisms. I am weak at that, though I know when to stand up again still the moment I heard somebody’s hurtful remarks, I really can’t help but think of it and hate them. These are one reason why I can’t make up my mind until now. I like him, I am falling for him. But it makes me wonder how they will judge me.

My Mom says, ‘What is wrong with that? They don’t have the right to say nasty things about you. If that is what they thought, let them think that way, what matter is that we know you. We know that nothing’s wrong in you decision, in what you did and in what you feel.’

Of course I know nothing is wrong in that. I never ruin any relationship nor do I gossip about their miserable life with their partners. The only thing is that, I’ve fallen for a man, who is not of my own race, different skin color. We can call it discrimination that is how others see it. But people should think that we are all human, we’re just born in different countries varying in skin color & languages we use.. but still we are all human.